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What if you were equipped to take charge of your destiny, taking ownership of your life and career without waiting on someone else–– especially an inept leader––to help you get where you want to go? Self-coaching is the solution.

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STIR IT UP! Stay Relevant: A Self-Coaching Parable provides a framework to help professionals self-coach their way to higher levels of self-awareness and effectiveness for business success and personal growth.

This book helps people identify their uniqueness, apply their special abilities, and move purposefully through the world. As a result, self-coaching leads to increased self-awareness, allowing readers to tap into their inner wisdom and experiences, and make significant behavioral shifts.

This book combines research-based theories of self-development and an interactive self-assessment, self-coaching questions and resources to help readers become their own best coach.

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STIR IT UP! A Self-Coaching Parable teaches you how to coach yourself and make real change to stay relevant in a world of constant upheaval.

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How to Stay Relevant in the Age of AI Podcast

Excited to share my conversation on Her Leadership Coach with Rochelle Marie is OUT NOW! We dive into how to stay relevant in the age of AI, without losing what makes you uniquely YOU. If you’re a career woman looking to expand your influence, impact, and income, this episode is for you! Click the links below and listen now!

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5bW1SpewlfyLwcoUsXhgY8?si=BYmo-55LTXqvzKtp7sKmzg
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/s5e18-how-to-stay-relevant-in-the-age-of-ai/id1598884606?i=1000697036805

10 Self-Coaching Questions to Reflect on Your Year

Before charging into the new year, it’s important to pause and reflect. Here are some questions to help get you on your path of self-discovery:

  1. What brought me the most joy this year – and why did it make me so happy?
  2. What was my biggest personal triumph – and why am I proud of it? 
  3. What was the bravest thing I did – and what did it teach me about myself? 
  4. What was my biggest mistake – and what did I learn from it? 
  5. What am I most grateful for – and who/what do I have to thank for it? 
  6. What challenges did I overcome?   –  and what did they teach me?
  7. What relationships brought me the most fulfillment?  – and who/what contributed to this feeling?
  8. What habits and routines served me well?  – and what benefits did I receive?
  9. How did I grow as a person?  – and what will I do to keep growing?
  10. What do I wish I had done differently?  – and what will I do about it now?

Take some time to write out your answers to these self-coaching questions.  

What has been revealed? How will you use these reflections to light your path for the coming year?

Bonus: Find a trusted friend, colleague or partner share the questions for them to reflect on, and then share your responses with each other. Verbally talking through your answers will provide a deeper layer of understanding for yourself and the person you are sharing with. 

The Power of Pause: Unforgettable Lessons from My Two Week Digital Detox

It’s amazing how a few sunsets and rainbows can wash the stress away. I have just returned from the most amazing two-week vacation. The first week I spent quality time with my awesome hubby, Jon, and the second week I spent with my amazing sister, Donna.  It didn’t hurt that it was on the beautiful island of Maui. From the moment I stepped off the plane, I felt a release.

I don’t know about you, but daily I have so much information coming at me I feel buried, so I asked myself, “How do I want to be on this vacation? Instead of What do I want to do?” My perspective shifted when I answered: I want to be present, at peace and in awe. I needed to get real about what it would take for me to show up that way. I made a commitment to myself that I was going to truly disconnect.  No news. No social media. No work. No agenda. No problem, right?

As I reflect on the trip, I realize how much I gained by reducing all the noise and living in the present. I experienced slow mornings sipping tea and writing in a gratitude journal, I spent in nature hiking the Lao Valley watching the water flow to the ocean, I sipped champagne on the cliffs and ate fresh seafood, I swam with sea turtles and dined with a gecko, and most importantly I deepened the relationships with my loved ones. Vacations and rest are not just for summer, it is a necessity to take time all year round to recharge so you can be at your best.

Self-Coaching Corner: Questions to Plan Time to Pause and Recharge

  • When is my next scheduled break?
  • How do I want to feel during this break?
  • Who do I want to share this break with?
  • How will this break help me recharge?